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Practical self-help articles from the licensed psychologists at Coastal Therapy Group in Carlsbad, Encinitas & Vista, CA.
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Cognitive defusion is the ACT skill of seeing a thought as just a thought. A Carlsbad psychologist explains what fusion costs you, what defusion feels like, and a few ways to practice it.
Acceptance and commitment therapy, explained from inside the room. A Carlsbad psychologist on what ACT actually is, how the six processes work in real sessions, and who it tends to help.
Defense mechanisms are the mind's automatic ways of protecting itself from feelings that seem too dangerous to feel. Sean Noe, PhD explains splitting, projection, repression, and more in plain language.
Psychologist Reid Kessler, Psy.D. explains why AI chatbots can't replicate the therapeutic relationship, drawing on Bion, Winnicott, Benjamin, and Harlow's research. Coastal Therapy Group, North County San Diego.
A psychotherapist reflects on how a Broadway show revealed the power of nonverbal emotional experience and what it teaches us about the connection between our bodies, feelings, and the moments when words fall short.
Being present with our loved ones in their suffering can be difficult. This post explores how advice giving can impact our loved ones who are in pain.
How do you help a partner with depression without burning out or making it worse? A San Diego psychologist on presence over solutions, and four ways to support someone you love.
Anxiety that keeps getting worse is usually anxiety that has been managed but never understood. Dr. Reid Kessler on why hiding it compounds it, and the step that actually brings it down.
